A while back – I don’t remember how long – I realized that I really wanted to properly learn to play music. Not only because it’s generally a cool thing to do, but I realized that my life is often centered around music in many ways. Also, given that I know for a fact that I’m personally at risk of dementia and other mind-degrading conditions, learning to play music now would help me in the distant future when my mind begins to slip – it would give me a solid foothold on reality to help reinforce a weakening grasp.
So I look around and decide that “hey, the violin is a popular choice, let’s figure that out.”
I’m talking to my friend about this and they tell me that they bought a violin a while back, but never got around to playing it, and they offer to loan it to me on the condition that I keep up with learning and practicing.
For some reason, I didn’t realize how loud a violin is.
I couldn’t practice while working, because, well. I was working. I couldn’t practice in the evening after working because I needed to be engaging with my kids. I couldn’t practice after the kids were in bed because that’s just about the only daily time I have to spend with Amanda. And because of how loud it is, I also can’t seriously practice after everyone else has gone to bed…because it would wake them up.
Also it turns out that violins are out of tune a lot of the time, and until you’re more experienced, tuning it is like a 10-minute process. This amount of time is more than enough to turn me off from wanting to practice the few times that I could.
In addition, I didn’t realize that violins did not have frets. At first my reaction to this was a simple “huh. Didn’t know that before.” But eventually I realized that without a lot of experience, it was pretty hard to properly place my fingers to get the right note. This was absolutely devastating to my ability to keep a practice/learning session smoothly working.
So, because “on the weekends” is not nearly enough time to practice (especially when first starting out), I quickly realized that this was not a great choice of instrument.
BUT NOW, armed with some knowledge of what sort of instrument I should try to learn, I hyperfixated on this question and looked for an instrument that ticks all the boxes:
– Cheap-ish
– Can be played quietly
– Can start practicing without much prep
– Did not have to rely on my own skill for affecting the tone (i.e. “has frets” or something)
And I came to the conclusion that the answer is a harp.
Harps are cool, and there’s a handful of different kinds. I researched this for a while and found that the cheaper ones were called “lever harps” or “celtic harps” and sometimes “lap harps” – but all of them are the same, and the traditional name of them is “cláirseach”, which is an old Gaelic word. This type of instrument very nearly a different class of instrument than what you see as part of an orchestra.
A lever harp is based on a triangular frame, usually 3-4 feet tall. The smallest are sometimes about 2 feet tall, and the largest ones end up being 5 feet tall or more. The smaller ones are designed to be worn with a strap around your back, or resting on your lap, and have between 20 and 30 strings. The larger ones (often called ‘floor harps’) are much less mobile, but can have up to 40 strings.
Since a harp (of any type or size) has exactly one string for each note, I didn’t need to rely on learning where to press on a string or whatever in order to get the right tone. Because of the levers, there’s a bit of flexibility in which key you’re tuned to, and you generally won’t be flipping the levers much while playing a song. This means that I won’t have to rely on my own skill for making the right tone – I simply have to select the right string.
Lever harps are also nearly always ready to be played at the drop of a hat – they are pretty easy to carry around your house, and are constantly ready to be played. They do like to get out of tune pretty easily, but being out of tune a small amount is fine for casual playing, and tuning it is a matter of maybe 2-3 minutes if you’re playing with others or in public. This means that I can pick it up and put it down very easily, so I can practice while on break at work or any other time I’ve got 5 minutes.
Harps in general are not loud – You can play a harp very quietly if you want to. It’s a recurring joke that conductors will ask for ‘more volume from the harp’ in practice, but there simply isn’t any more volume to be had out of the thing. So this would solve the problem of “can’t play it while people are sleeping.”
And one of the hardest limiting factors: price. Pedal harps (the big orchestral ones) can very easily run up to the $20,000 range and far beyond. Until the mid-2000s, lever harps (being much less complicated) were still very easily priced as high as $2000 at the low end, and ones that were very poorly designed/constructed *might* come down to $1000. But one luthier – William Rees – decided that there should be a budget-friendly harp on the market, and so made the “Harpsicle” line of harps. It’s a basic harp with zero bells and whistles (not even levers), but it’s affordable for a normal budget of “person looking to buy an instrument” at $580 (as of this writing). When it first hit mass production, the lightweight nature and cheap price made it suddenly *very* popular with people doing music therapy for elderly people and children. They began selling faster than they could make them.
There’s a few more expensive harps in the Harpsicle line, and I was excited that I found what should work for me. If you go up only a single step to the “Sharpsicle”, then you had all the structure you needed to upgrade it to the fully-levered “Fullsicle”.
After looking around online for sales or deals or anything like that, I decided to contact a local shop owner that not only repaired and maintained pianos and harps, she also gave lessons!
The first time that I sat down at a harp and strummed the strings in her shop, I was instantly hooked. It didn’t matter how much it cost, I was going to have a harp, I was going to learn to play it, and I was going to play it. The sound of the strings ringing to my touch reached in through my ears and grabbed me by my brainstem – *this was the answer*. I didn’t even know what question it was an answer *to* – I just knew that harps were the thing that fit into a place in me, and it’s going to be something I do for quite a long time.
I started by renting a harp from my teacher, and later on she (being a dealer) found a great deal on a special edition Fullsicle. I call this harp “Striped Jenny.” I love this harp and I’m planning on making a travel case for her in the future.
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Patreon.
Here’s a link: patreon.com/StumbleStorySeth
I realized that if I was going to start doing things and making it a way I’m living my life, I’m going to need to start getting paid for it.
Currently, the only thing that Patreon is there for is to let people give me money. I don’t particularly enjoy the idea of gatekeeping the stuff I make behind a paywall, but I know the things I’m (eventually) going to do and make will be things that people will want to pay for, so I’ll figure out how I think about that later.
Anyways.
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Holy Crap
I recently had my 9th anniversary of being married to Amanda and we were observing that ‘growing up’ and having kids has slowed down our lives quite a bit.
And it’s not like “nothing happens” – it’s that all the things that do happen are a lot more in our laps than they are out in the world. Raising kids, working ‘real’ jobs, paying loans, and so forth are all happening right in our face. Before we had kids and all this other life stuff, we would need to go out to the world to progress our lives. Now it feels like some 95% of the progression of our lives happens “in-house”.
The reason that I say this is because I last posted here in October, saying that I’d like to be posting more often. that’s what, 4 months ago? Yeesh.
The entire household has been sick since Christmas, which is just the worst. We got some weird bug right before Christmas, and by the time it had run it’s course, we had another awful cold or something. I don’t think I’ve spent a day not coughing since then. The accumulating sleep debt (beyond having an infant) and general exhaustion adds yet another dimension on to the whole “all of life taking more energy.”
Ok, well my kids are almost 1 and almost 5 – both birthdays in March. I’m going to be getting my yearly raise here in a few weeks. I’m going to be getting some intense training from my job a bit after that. I’m going to be trying for a new position at my company as well.
Amanda is also so experienced with knitting that she can practically do it in her sleep. She certainly does these awesome small expanding grocery-bag things (which is apparently quite a complex stitch) while we are watching movies or TV. She’s actually planning on doing them once per day and then selling them at farmer’s markets. It helps her with nervous energy while sitting, as well as (hopefully) bringing in some extra cash – and as a bonus it’s also helping Amanda with her anti-plastic goals.
For me, I am learning game design and programming, and trying to figure out how to implement an idea that I’ve had. I’m going to be using Godot, because it’s free (like – ‘MIT open license’ free, which is crazy free), seems to be pretty intuitive, and has a ton of community around it.
My game is going to need a lot more learning to even begin implementing it, but I’m grinding through the tutorials, and I really need to get a github going. I’m planning on asking my 5-year old what she wants in a game and just directly using her idea as a self-tutorial challenge thing. Right now the main thing I know about her game is that it will have a unicorn.
I suppose that’s it. I just wanted to be in the habit of writing something. Hopefully the next thing will be sooner than 3 months from now.
Getting back to it.
The last post that I had was just over one year ago.
Hmm…
That’s no way to run a website.
In that year, I’ve accomplished a lot.
I’ve become extremely comfortable at my job, and I’m even looking down the barrel of another skills test to justify another raise in January.
I’ve managed to get to the point where I actually have savings.
I’ve been a Best Man for my friend.
Oh yeah, I also have begun including in my household a new tyrant. Her name is Willow and she’s 7 months old at the time of writing this. She is developing crazy fast and she’s a friggin giant. She’s been pulling herself up on to her feet for about a month but has yet to figure out walking. She sleeps in a crib but also knows that if it’s dark and she starts yelling, then daddy comes down the hall and holds her.
There’s also been a variety of drama in my life, even before she was born.
So yeah, there’s a good set of reasons that I haven’t been updating, sleep deprivation being a big one the last seven months.
But I’m going to try to start updating again.
Currently I have a few things going on – as I mentioned my job is going well and I have 2 kids. Sometime soon I’ll be able to trade in my falling-apart-at-the-seams car for a better car, and by about christmas I should be able to start seriously looking for a house to buy (meaning Nerd Fort #3 will have a place to exist). I’m also learning how to code in Godot so that I can make a video game that’s been stewing in the back of my mind for a little while.
A to-do list for this website
So, in the interest of actually using this webspace that I am paying for, I am going to create this to-do list for myself. I feel like this will help me to be more directed in the way in which I approach it, and I feel like that is a good thing. I’m going to revisit this post on a regular basis (let’s say, monday sometime after lunch?) and let people know what I’ve done and what’s next. Maybe this should be a webpage.
CURRENTLY, I am working on THE WEBSITE ITSELF, with an emphasis on IMAGES
The website itself:
-The header image: Even if I do not include an Inn, per se, I should include imagery that evokes an old-timey building ready to welcome road-weary travelers.
-The Structure: Does this website operate in the way that I want it to? Do the pages lead to one another in a way that makes conceptual sense? I have no idea – but I will find out.
-Images I want: I have a daughter, even some pictures of her. Perhaps I should take the best images from my mother-in-law’s instagram and put them here? I think that’s a good idea. I also have other things that I have or want images of – and I even have a device specifically dedicated to their capture! and capture them I will.
Categories on the website
– Apprentice Father: Perhaps this should be less gender specific? Apprentice Parent? Whatever. I am learning to care for this screaming and laughing poop machine and I should act like it is something that I am learning, rather than something that is happening to me.
– Apprentice whatever-else: I am still not GMing. I am trying to tell stories, but might not have time. I know for a fact that I’m a nerd…am I writing about it?
Things connected to the website
– Amazon: I am an Amazon Associate…but even though they say I have been, I remain unpaid for the small amount of money that I am purportedly due.
– Social Media: I actually have a twitter for this thing. and a facebook. and I (as a person, not as a website) have an instagram. Perhaps I should integrate those more carefully….